From the monthly archives:

May 2008

One of the interesting panelists at the symposium was Lawrence Mills, a Seattle attorney who is currently the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution. One topic he discussed was the findings of a task force on mediation quality. Their report named four elements necessary for quality mediation: 1) solid preparation by the mediator, counsel, and parties; 2) customizing the process to the matter at hand; 3) essential analytical assistance from the mediator; and 4) persistence by the mediator.

Some might be surprised by the second element, the importance of tailoring the mediation process to the needs of those involved. Yet one of the greatest benefits of mediation is that the parties can make the process their own. They can determine time, place, duration, participants, style, and whatever else they must design to make the process work for them. If their needs change, they can change the process to fit.

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Sixth Speziale ADR Symposium — Part II

by admin on May 29, 2008

One of the topics discussed by panelists at the symposium was the issue of mediator credentials. Some states have specific standards that an individual must meet before practicing mediation. Other states, including Connecticut, do not. Nationally, the issue has been studied for a number of years and initiatives have risen and fallen. An across-the-board resolution of the matter seems unlikely any time soon.

Some who are in the market for mediators are attorneys in litigated civil cases who both have and look for a certain level of sophistication. In other instances, the style of a mediation is the most important consideration for the parties. Whatever the area, if the participants can choose their mediator, they should ask questions and carefully evaluate the answers. Starting with a mediator who is a good fit is the first step to finding a solution that fits.

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Sixth Speziale ADR Symposium — Part I

by admin on May 29, 2008

On May 16, 2008, the Connecticut Bar Foundation presented the Sixth John A. Speziale ADR Symposium at the Quinnipiac University School of Law. The keynote speaker, Kenneth Feinberg, spoke about his experience as the Special Master of the Federal September 11th Victim Compensation Fund of 2001. Although the process he developed and administered for the Fund was not strictly mediation or arbitration, he shared interesting insights into why the Fund worked so well.

One observation was very familiar to mediators: the right to be heard was vitally important to those who had had lost a loved one or suffered injury. Mr. Feinberg stressed that participants could bring anyone they wished, and as many as they wished, to their hearing. They spoke poignantly of their loss and their pain, and how their lives had been changed by that day’s events.

The need to be heard, and to have a loss acknowledged, can be essential in mediations of any type: from the business dispute that seems on the surface to be only about dollars and sense to the family ruptured by disagreement over how to make decisions about an elderly relative’s care.

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On May 21, 2008, I had the pleasure of meeting of Jim Malski and Mike Raub of “Talking Business .. Taking Action” (Jim and Mike) and “Fairfield County Business Showcase” (Mike), airing on News Talk 1400WSTC/1350 WNLK. I had a brief interview with Jim, who asked for a concise tip about business conflicts. I suggested that those in business together need to strive to communicate effectively, to avoid letting conflict worsen, once it has begun.

I enjoyed a longer, taped interview with Mike, to be broadcast on Saturday’s noon to 12:30 p.m. radio show. We talked about business mediation and how it can help business owners to better manage their businesses by preventing, reducing, or resolving conflict. As I told Mike, conflict can harm any type of business, regardless of the product or service offered.

It was a pleasure to address the benefits of business mediation in a different medium, radio. Many who could take wisely take advantage of business mediation or consulting services are unaware of these options, so I welcome the opportunity to let more people know about them.

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Not-for-profit Organizations

by admin on May 22, 2008

Not-for-profit organizations can face many of the conflicts that for-profit businesses do, as well as unique challenges that can arise from their structure, purpose, difficulties in measuring outcomes, and funding restrictions. Mediation, facilitation, and consulting assistance can help meet these challenges.

Any organization, whether it sells products or services, or serves an important community need, consists of people developing goals, making plans to achieve them, and taking steps to implement those plans. Conflicts can arise in each of those steps – at the initial stages of the organization or as it grows and evolves.

A not-for-profit organization’s initial purpose and goals may no longer fit with changing conditions in the community it serves, yet those involved since the founding may find it difficult to accept necessary changes. Not-for-profits may struggle to demonstrate their successes because they cannot rely on profits as measurement tool.

Funding sources – whether private donors, foundations, or government agencies – may impose standards and requirements on the organization.

Not-for-profits have additional challenges because they may work with volunteers as Board directors, committee members, and essential helping hands.

Some involved in a not-for-profit may be inexperienced with or reluctant to embrace efficiencies and processes that would be expected in private sector and could be helpful in the not-for-profit sector.

Community foundations (especially donor directed funds) and family foundations add another dimension: potential conflicts when a younger generation does not understand or fully share the motivation and intent of the parents who made significant donations. The next generation may feel resentment, which may be spoken or unspoken, about gifting decisions made but not known until the death of the donor.

Mediation and facilitation can help those within the organization find common ground and work together to achieve their shared fundamental goals. Not-for-profit organizations may also benefit from mediation, facilitation, or consulting assistance in their relationships with each other, potential donors, and others whose actions can affect their ability to succeed.

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Estate Planning and Settlement

by admin on May 22, 2008

Mediation is a voluntary process that families and others can use to prevent, reduce or resolve conflicts. Mediation sessions are confidential, and a professional mediator is a trained neutral who has no stake in the outcome and who works with parties to create resolutions tailored to their needs and priorities.

Mediation or consulting assistance for effective communications can be helpful both in the estate planning process and at the time of estate settlement and administration.

At the planning stage, mediation focuses on preventing future problems. Decisions involving assets and family dynamics can be challenging. It is not unusual for people to try to avoid the discomfort of grappling with complex issues. Yet, when important concerns are left unspoken, the estate plan itself may deficient because those who created the plan were not adequately informed. As the plan is eventually executed, unforeseen problems may arise. Family relationships and family wealth may suffer.

Some couples or individuals become paralyzed by the difficulty of sorting out conflicting perspectives and priorities without help, and their estate plan is never completed or is not updated as necessary.

At times, the effort to communicate the motivations behind planning choices is essential to prevent misunderstandings that can lead to bruised feelings or worse.

Families who run a family business, blended families, families who must plan for children with special needs, nontraditional families, and families who will leave significant assets to family foundations or donor-directed funds may face additional financial and emotional hurdles.

Estates of significant size can create conflicts over distribution of both significant assets and cherished household items. Families of more modest means can face difficult decisions over the disposition of the family home. Adult children may be confused and angry about the estate settlement process.

Mediation provides an alternative to avoiding difficult but essential issues, enduring ongoing family discord, or initiating litigation. If litigation has begun, mediation can help parties reach a faster, less expensive resolution of their own creation.

Mediation does not take the place of the working relationships that attorneys, financial advisors, accountants, and other professionals have with their clients, but can often help them to both avoid conflicts of interest and to achieve their clients’ goals.

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Business Mediation

by admin on May 15, 2008

Business mediation is a process for resolving conflicts within or between businesses. Participation is voluntary, the sessions are confidential, and the mediator is a trained neutral who has no stake in the outcome. Mediation can be helpful at any point in the life cycle of a business, from formation to dissolution, and even in bankruptcy proceedings. In mediation, parties retain control and are able to craft an agreement that best suits their needs, instead of leaving a judge, jury, or arbitrator to decide their fate.

Mediation at the inception of a business can take the form of creative and thoughtful planning to prevent conflicts, as well as to minimize and resolve conflicts that may still occur. Simply including an agreement to mediate disputes in appropriate documents can create a framework and expectation that conflicts will be handled in a fashion that best serves the business and its owners.

At a later time, mediation can permit owners to make adjustments necessary for the business to thrive, as conditions and their own priorities evolve. If a “business divorce” is the best option, mediation can serve the interests of all of the parties involved.

In any context, mediation typically costs less in out-of-pocket expenses than protracted litigation and requires less time to reach a resolution. Mediating a business dispute also minimizes costs that are difficult to quantify. Distraction and discontent within the business caused by the ongoing conflict can lead to a lack of focus on running the business effectively. Loss of business goodwill can follow as adversaries within the business harden their positions and vendors, customers, and external partners become affected by the internal strife. Competitors may see opportunities to take advantage of the firm’s weakness.

Mediation between or among businesses offers many of the same benefits as mediation within a business, reducing both direct and indirect costs.

Not-for-profit organizations also face conflicts that mediation can help to resolve.

Family Businesses

Mediation is especially effective in addressing the particular opportunities and challenges presented by family businesses. Family dynamics can reflect tensions that arise from events that occurred long ago and reactions to them, as well as inevitable change as family members mature, marry, retire, and change their personal priorities. The success, even the viability, of the business can be placed in jeopardy by family conflict.

Mediation and consulting to assist productive communications can help families and their businesses to grapple with difficult issues that will do harm to both if they are ignored or if some involved feel that their interests have been overlooked or unfairly undervalued.

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Elder Mediation

by admin on May 8, 2008

Elder Mediation (sometimes called “elder care mediation”) uses the same principles that mediation does in other contexts. Participation is voluntary, the sessions are confidential, and the mediator is a trained neutral who has no stake in the outcome.

The focus is on decisions and communications directly involving the elderly and their loved ones. Usually, but not always, the people involved are adult siblings and their parents. Others, especially other family members, may be affected by conflict, whether or not it is acknowledged.

Issues typically relate to caregiving, financial planning, medical decisions, driving and other safety concerns, and/or legal authority (power of attorney, health care agent, etc.)

In the past, options could seem to be limited to denial of the conflict, estrangement and rejection of one or more in the family, or litigation.

Lifelong patterns of behavior and perceived or real wrongs committed decades ago can inhibit the ability of family members to work out a resolution on their own.

Elder mediation supports respect, dignity, and the elder’s participation in decision-making to the extent possible and desired by the elder.

Goals may include:

Ensuring participation in the process for those affected by giving voice to their concerns

Resolution of a particular pressing issue (e.g. sale of a house, caregiving, a medical decision)

Creation of a communications plan for the future

Some families seek elder mediation on their own. Professionals such as attorneys, geriatric care managers, and financial advisors may also refer families to elder mediation. Mediation does not take the place of the working relationship these professionals have with their clients, but can often assist them to better serve their clients’ needs.

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Contact Us

by admin on May 8, 2008

Please contact Jane Beddall at Dovetail Resolutions, LLC for a free consultation to see if we may be able to assist you. We invite your questions and look forward to working with you to help you design a resolution to fit your needs. We welcome confidential inquiries from a party to a conflict, or from your attorney, financial planner, or other trusted advisor.

Ms. Beddall is also available to speak to your company or group about issues surrounding conflict: preventing, minimizing, and resolving conflict.

Jane Beddall
Dovetail Resolutions, LLC
#159 Whalley Avenue
New Haven, CT 06515

Phone: 203.887.1160

Fax: 203.393.7223

email: jb@dovetailresolutions.com

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About Us

by admin on May 8, 2008

After working as a mediator and attorney for a number of years, Jane Beddall founded Dovetail Resolutions, LLC to provide mediation services to help parties in conflict reach resolutions tailored to their interests.

Professional Education

B.A., Economics, Trinity College (Hartford), 1979

M.A., Public Policy Analysis, University of Pennsylvania, 1984 (concentration in conflict resolution)

J.D., cum laude, University of Pennsylvania, 1984

Over 160 hours in mediation, arbitration, and facilitation training, since 1987, as well as numerous continuing legal education programs.

Her mediation training has covered the basics, community mediation, mediation of employment disputes (through the Institute for Labor Relations Cornell University Institute for Labor Relations/Alliance for Education in Dispute Resolution), transformative mediation (through the United States Postal Service REDRESS program) and elder mediation.

Admissions

Admitted to practice in the State of Connecticut, U.S. District Court for the District of Connecticut, U.S. Court of Appeals for the Second Circuit, and the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania.

Professional experience

In addition to practicing law and mediation, Ms. Beddall has worked as a law clerk to a Pennsylvania state appellate judge, for a municipality, and for a not-for-profit economic development organization focused on supporting small businesses.

She has taught as an adjunct instructor at the University of Connecticut School of Law (Moot Court) and the University of New Haven (Evidence).

Ms. Beddall is of counsel to Delaney & Triplett, P.C., a Wallingford, CT law firm.

Pro bono and volunteer work

In 2007, Ms. Beddall was appointed by the Connecticut Bar Association President to the CBA’s Resolution of Legal Fee Disputes Committee.

Ms. Beddall has served as a volunteer mediator for Community Mediation, Inc., a community-based mediation program serving Greater New Haven for a number of years. She has also served as a VISTA volunteer and as a board member of a private foundation, a social service agency, and a municipal authority.

Memberships

Association for Conflict Resolution (ACR), the international association of dispute resolution professionals

ACR New England Chapter (NE-ACR)

Connecticut Bar Association (CBA), Executive Committee, Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Section; member of Elder Law Section and Estates and Probate Section

As part of her work on the Executive Committee, Ms. Beddall maintains a listing of informative Dispute Resolution web sites on the Section’s page on the CBA web site, accessible by the public. www.ctbar.org

Bridgeport Regional Business Council

Central Connecticut Women’s Forum

Greater New Haven Chamber of Commerce

Hamden Chamber of Commerce

MERG, Connecticut’s Microenterprise Resource Group

New Haven County Bar Association

Women’s Business Development Center, based in Fairfield County

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