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April 2 is Reconciliation Day

Friday, April 2nd, 2010

Each year, April 2 is recognized as Reconciliation Day.   The idea was launched by Ann Landers, the late advice columnist, who saw that mending fences — even if those fences had been broken for a long time — could be a good thing for those involved. Conflict resolution can involve reconciliation, a clean break, or […]

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“ADR” in Haiti?

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

A NPR radio interview today was discussing the current, as well as pre-quake, legal system in Haiti.   It has its fair share of challenges, and then some.  What caught my ear was a question about whether efforts to address the legal questions that arise in the camps of displaced people, in the rebuilding efforts, and […]

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“Aha” Moments in Mediation

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

Earlier this month, the Connecticut Bar Association’s Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Section enjoyed a presentation by Charlie Pillsbury and Brenda Cavanaugh about their role in the mediation of a dispute over Tweed New Haven Regional Airport.  Brenda remains Associate Director at Community Mediation, Inc., of New Haven, CT. Charlie was Executive Director of Community Mediation, […]

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Talk, Talk, and Talk Some More

Friday, March 19th, 2010

My tip on how to deal with a bad, falling apart business relationship was published yesterday in the Toilet Paper Entrepreneur blog piece on “81 Strategies to Fix a Bad, Falling Apart Business Partnership.”  My tip,” Talk, Talk, and Talk Some More”, is focused on communication’s role in business conflict management.   This is the third […]

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Lions, Lambs, and Mediation Misconceptions

Saturday, March 13th, 2010

We’ve all heard about March coming in like a lion and going out like a lamb. Some think — mistakenly — that mediation is the same.  They avoid mediation because they fear they are expected to come into it like a lion, in strength,  and finish the process like a lamb, in weakness. In fact, […]

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Rotary of Woodbridge, Connecticut Mediation Talk

Monday, March 8th, 2010

Last week, I had the pleasure of speaking to the Woodbridge, Connecticut Rotary Club about mediation and conflict management.  We discussed tips for preventing conflict, reducing conflict, and resolving conflict. One particular point stood out.  I often talk about the great dangers that accompany the great benefits of email.  We’ve all heard about the huge […]

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Thoughts on Mediation and “On Apology”, Part II

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

Tiger Woods’ recent mea culpa led to a number of comments and critiques. One of the most interesting analyses came in a New York Times article on Sunday, “I Apologize. No, Really, I’m Serious, I…” by Paul Vitello.  In it, he notes the work of  Dr. Aaron Lazare, the author of “On Apology”, which focuses […]

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Thoughts on Mediation and “On Apology”, Part III

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

Tiger Woods’ recent mea culpa led to a number of comments and critiques. One of the most interesting analyses came in a New York Times article on Sunday, “I Apologize. No, Really, I’m Serious, I…” by Paul Vitello.  In it, he notes the work of  Dr. Aaron Lazare, the author of “On Apology”, which focuses […]

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Thoughts on Mediation and “On Apology”, Part IV

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

Tiger Woods’ recent mea culpa led to a number of comments and critiques. One of the most interesting analyses came in a New York Times article on Sunday, “I Apologize. No, Really, I’m Serious, I…” by Paul Vitello.  In it, he notes the work of  Dr. Aaron Lazare, the author of “On Apology”, which focuses […]

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Thoughts on Mediation and “On Apology”, Part I

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

Tiger Woods’ recent mea culpa led to a number of comments and critiques. One of the most interesting analyses came in a New York Times article on Sunday, “I Apologize. No, Really, I’m Serious, I…” by Paul Vitello.  In it, he notes the work of  Dr. Aaron Lazare, the author of “On Apology”, which focuses […]

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