It can be tempting for all of us to choose not to handle conflict. That’s part of why I work with ostriches: the human equivalent of the birds who (mythically) react to problems by burying their heads in the sand. It’s not a good option for birds (asphyxiation) or humans (problems get worse as you […]
Do it while you still can — adventures and conversations
I recently heard the ongoing conversations of a couple of healthy 70-something guys planning adventures to enjoy while they still can. (The occasion, sadly, was the funeral of a dear friend.) Hearing them continuing to add items to their bucket lists (while happily checking off others) reminded me of the value of having important family […]
Family business mediation or facilitation — how they differ
Mediation and facilitated meetings address both the challenges and the opportunities of family businesses. Although the boundary can blur, there are a few differences between mediation and facilitation. Engagement in a mediation process is typically triggered by a specific dispute. The goal is for those involved to craft an agreement, with the help […]
Family Money Talk
Two days ago, Kiplinger published a great online article by Jennifer Anderson, “The Family Money Talk You Must Have — Your adult kids should know about your finances and what they can expect.” The article stresses how important — even if difficult — it is for parents to talk to their adult children about estate […]
